A Nepali woman Kanchan Sharma’s emotional interview has gone viral on the internet who claimed to be abandoned by her rich husband because of her looks as he started progressing in life. She said her two sons did not even speak a word when they passed on private vehicle as she was living on the same streets for last 7 years. It indeed is a very painful story of a mother and wife. However, there are other sides of untold story. Probably we viewers and presenter Suman Kharel would have done bit more before judging others.
Once this interview was aired on Kantipur TV’s program ‘Suman Sanga’ it was shared all over social media. We Nepalis are very emotional and get carried away so quickly, hence everyone started attacking her husband and kids. There were hundreds of ‘Trolls and Memes’ with her husband’s and sons pictures already defaming them. Everyone was trying to look morally good by blaming her family as if you were a God and not done anything wrong in life. Interesting fact is we don’t even know anything about their side of story, probably not even a name. Here we all are assuming that everything she said is 100% fact and we Nepalis are always good on social media, we want to look good, sound good morally and ethically. We love to be loud, rude and uncivilised on social media by attacking each other; be it on twitter, facebook, or youtube. We make hero of no reason and so do we create villains.
Presenter Suman Kharel was not right doing only one sided story but at the same time, the viewers also equally share the responsibility. It is a sad story but in every society not all the relationships have a happy ending. Some relationship and families are broken everywhere and it needs ‘two to tango’. There are many cases when wife leaves husband with kids and vice-versa. But those who care don’t end up in the streets, they stay strong and fight for life. We all are sympathetic for Kanchan Sharma Regmi because she was weak, because she had nowhere to go? She claimed to have Bachelor’s degree from PK Campus and even a professional certificate (Nursing) with 4 years of working experience. So who is responsible for her current situation? You can’t just blame others for your weakness. Nobody just leaves you just like that there must be something between herself and husband and she is definitely not going reveal herself.
There are so many things to get answered before we pour our heart for her. The things she claimed on interview need to be checked. Were they already divorced 5 years ago? Does her husband own a car as calimed by her? Was she alcoholic? Let’s wait and hear from her husband’s side who is coming to media soon before we judge anyone else. In the meantime, go through this wonderful article by Mysansar on this case. Our best wishes to Mrs Kanchan Sharma for happy life ahead.
Updated: Here is interview of Mr Mohan Regmi (ex-husband of Kanchan Sharma)